Im not really one for having really close pals and doing everything together. There is too  much going on in my brain or room for this in my life. With family issues, family other freinds to see, work, and everythign else, I just cant see how I can fit this in emotionally or practically, maybe one day this might change, but ive also had my fair share of fairweather freinds, those when things are great for a while, then they lose interest, and then wondering whether they were true freinds in the first place. The best freinds i have are those who I dont see for a while, but its all stull okay and we can cathc up from where we left off. A lot of people need more than this in their lives, including my kids, freinds are wverything to them, but Iive lways been a bit of a loner, thats just the way I am, but thats not to say I need closeness, but just with people when its  not hard work or i have to worry about offending them or just being able to be myself without judgement, thats yrue freindship.